Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: 1)I did not help my brother sell his stuff while he was overseas. 2)It would have made moving alot easier for my family and because we were ...I (47M) inherited a property from my father 11 years ago. For the past five years I’ve been renting the house to a nice family with a young child (5M). They’ve been great tenants and there haven’t been any issues. A month ago I was approached by a realtor about selling my property. He had a buyer who was interested and was ready to offer ...My brother is married and has two children, a two year old and a newborn. He recently lost his job and has asked my parents if he can move back in until he is back on his feet. My parents told me that I would need to move out of the basement suite in the house and into my mom's hobby room while my brother and his family stay with them.They tell me to leave their house. I lost it, and told them that they had 30 days to get out. Tell my son I'm selling the house and he could find somewhere else to live with all of you. I go to a realtor in town and list the house for sale. They call my son at work and tell him what I said. Apparently they thought that he owned the house.7 years ago I was married and expecting a baby when things went horribly wrong. Around 10 weeks into my pregnancy I suffered a miscarriage and then I returned home to find my husband in bed with my sister. The two of them tried to apologize and convince me that we could all get over it.Mom stays out of your room and does not get a key. If anyone breaks these rules, you move toward immediate eviction proceedings. Step 2: speak with a lawyer and become better educated in eviction law. Be prepared to serve 30 day notice to your brother and SIL, and mom if necessary. Step 3: brother needs a plan to move out.People like your ex need to understand that when a person cuts someone off, it's usually for a good reason. They don't get to decide when you should forgive someone. No one is owed or entitled to forgiveness. Not everyone had the privilege of having healthy relationships with their family. Your DNA sharer doesn't deserve the title of dad.This comment is a copy of your post so readers can see the original text if your post is edited or removed. This comment is NOT accusing you of copying anything. Read this before contacting the mod team. AITA for how I handled the situation Okay buckle in this is a doozy backstory: John- my brother Alex- my sister in lawSell the house to your aunt, appraised value plus your mom's inheritance. Sell the house and live your life as you like, otherwise the house will always be something for your family to argue about. Go NC with your aunt and keep a low information diet with everyone else in the family. NTA sell the house.The house has enough space for my sister and her family, and I said they can move in with us as long as they don't bring their tarantulas and other insects with them as my wife is terrified of spiders (to the point of passing out or having a sever panic attack and Bob has them escaping frequently). Bob refused.Your SIL need to figure out her own budget and wedding - if all the wedding dressed are too expensive then she either needs to get realistic or she can ask her own mother about sewing a dress. I would suggest going LC with her because she doesn't respect you. Keep your dress as an heirloom for your own family.AITA for not letting a family buy our home . My husband and I are selling our house, and we were touring a woman and her husband who are getting ready to start a family. ... You can't expect to sell the family home and also insist that the new owners keep it exactly the same to respect your sentiments. If you love it that much, don't sell. ReplyAITA for selling my family home because my pregnant sil ate my dinner - YouTube. Story Dude. 6.49K subscribers. Subscribed. 45. 1.8K views 3 years ago. We now also have a podcast,...AITA for effectively making my sister homeless. I (35M) and siblings (32F, 27F) grew up well off, but to put it succinctly my mother once peed her pants laughing when my sister called us rich and my mother pointed out we (the children) were broke. We paid our own way through college, with our parents agreeing to pay back any credits with a B+ ...I would sell the house and I wouldn't think twice about her she had all that money that could have lasted her for years to come and she went through it all. That is on her. You do what's best for your wife and your children. She sounds very selfish and entitledSo there are 5 grandkids in total. My dad was never much of a girls guy. He always got along with the boys more than the girls. Him and my son were very close. He has left the car to my son in his will. The rest of the grandkids got $4,000 each. The vehicle is …Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: Buying the house for 10% of value, knowing my family could use the money from the sale of the houseMy GF commented on my mom’s necklace to which my mom answered that she already picked out the style for my GF’s jewelry set when we get married. In our tradition, the family of the groom gifts their new DIL a necklace, earrings, and another piece of jewelry during the morning event on the wedding day. This set usually cost $40-50k in my family tradition.A 19-year-old woman struggled with the family dynamics between herself, her mother and her half-brother. Unsure she handled things properly, she turned to the “Am I The …That day we found out that the ac wasn't working and it needed a new compressor and condenser so we spent $2100 on that repair. When we got the car back another problem arose and we had to replace the exhaust manifold for $1800. Along with some other maintenance we ended up spending over $4000 on it.AITA for selling "my daughter's" car? Asshole. I (56M) have a son (28M) and a daughter (22F). I like both of my kids equally however they are different individuals with different lives so I help them based on their needs. My son did not do well in high school and went to a community college and decided it was not for him after a semester and ...They tell me to leave their house. I lost it, and told them that they had 30 days to get out. Tell my son I'm selling the house and he could find somewhere else to live with all of you. I go to a realtor in town and list the house for sale. They call my son at work and tell him what I said. Apparently they thought that he owned the house. He ...ADMIN MOD. AITA (38M) For Cutting Back On work To Prove A Point To My Wife (30F)? Not the A-hole. My wife is usually an angel of a woman, but has recently gotten into a friendship with a woman whom I personally believe is a bad influence on her, not in a patronizing way, more of a "lay down with dogs, get up with fleas" type of situation.My own family goes out of our way NOT to inconvenience each other, so whenever someone has an "innocent mistake", we've had arguments over who GETS to pay for it. (And if my nephew had caused fire damage, we would have already had a collection pulled together without being asked.) So everyone needs to take a hard look, but not everyone is ...Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: decided that to meet terms of my dad's will I would sell some of his property abroad. currently his family live there rent free.Over the last couple of years, my family (i.e. my mother and sister) has been under financial duress and have been pleading to me to sell my house because I "don't need it". And they're technically right: I don't utilize this space. It's just my dog and I. I haven't set foot in some rooms in months. They say with the sale of the house, I can ...AITA for buying stuff for me instead of helping my family. I (14F) am a dancer. I am unfortunately unable to go to classes very often because of my families financial needs. (I am very grateful that I am able to even participate in dance) When I had just turned 14, I began working at an ice cream shop to save money for equipment: a barre, leo ...There was a whole piano in my house when we arrived that said my name and they insisted I should play "for them". So the piano was mine until I sold it, although my parents thought that I would give it to my sister. You didn't sell the piano that was meant for your sister, you sold your piano.We have 2 daughters, oldest has started. The other is getting to the age where it will happen soon. My youngest is a boy. In our home, we are open about it. Don't get the wrong idea, we aren't nudists lol. But I want my kids to know the natural things a human body does, is nothing to be ashamed of. Speak freely, ask questions, get help if you ...Now, my father left the house to me, I have an older brother who I still live with and we have decided to sell the house because we eventually plan to start our own lives in the future. We're still both in uni, and I am doing my final year and he is finishing his honors, so the reasoning is, we no longer have to keep the house because it is in a rather jobless …OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I may be the asshole for being too hard on my friend and giving her an ultimatum. Selling her ticket would mean she wouldn't be able to go with our group to a band we all really enjoy. I know she's a big fan of this band. That's why I think I may be the ...Long story short, my grandparents used to live on this ranch for almost 60 years and both passed on the property. My mother was raised there and so were my siblings and I so there's quite a lot of sentimental value to the house. There's also a lot of monetary value to the property. The problem is the upkeep.Context and a very short version- when I was 17 I was in a relationship with my twin brothers best friend Jake it lasted 8 years till we were all finished collage and my ex had gotten enough money off his extremely religious parents to get a head start in life If you don't know were this is going my brother and Jake were together the whole time and used me as a cover because my feelings didn ...NTA. It's no longer your family's constantly available vacation home, it's a listed rental with a way in place to handle reservations. It's also not yours, it belongs to your parents. There is no conceivable way you're the asshole for letting your friends know that your parents are renting it out. 1.ADMIN. AITA for only letting some family use "the family cabin?". Not the A-hole. AITA for only letting some family members use the cabin "the family cabin?". Throwaway account. Last Spring, my Grandparents put their cabin up for sale. They've had it for 25 years and the entire family has made great memories up there and very ...The last time I was at the home, was about year ago and it just looked like they painted. The house is causing issues for my finances now and I have had multiple people reach out to me to sell. I also want to sell it since I am tired of seeing the home, it just reminds me of my mom and that she is gone.NTA or even better YTH (your the hero), because this emergency move in was just his way of trapping you and you avoided it and gave him his consequences for f-ing around. Selling the house without warning was the best move in this case, he was really financially abusing you. You definitely deserve love and respect.My aunt remained seated and my cousin asked me to calm down and drink some water but I grabbed my stuff and as I was getting ready, I told my sister she was getting 0 dollars for her dream wedding dress then I walked out. I heard louder commotion as I walked and my dad and cousin followed me outside trying to talk but I asked to be left alone.OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I'm going to skips birthday party and take our 2 kids on a vacation planned months ago. 2. My wife and stepdaughter wants to attend the birthday party so I'll be going without them. Help keep the sub engaging!'AITA for selling an heirloom of my ex-husband’s family?' | Someecards AITA. Taylor Brown. Feb 14, 2024 | 5:45 PM. ADVERTISING. "AITA for selling an …ETA again: I was about to call my dad when my friend stopped me saying "he's not done cleaning house " and I asked what they meant and they responded that I left my phone open and they saw the messages sent to me and forwarded them to my dad asking if this is the family dynamic he wants for me and he's apparently been doing pretty much ...r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.I would sell the house and I wouldn't think twice about her she had all that money that could have lasted her for years to come and she went through it all. That is on her. You do what's best for your wife and your children. She sounds very selfish and entitledWelcome to r/AmITheAsshole. Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: 1)I did not help my brother sell his stuff while he was overseas. 2)It would have made moving alot easier for my family and because we were ...Apart-Tradition-2235. ADMIN MOD. AITA for selling my stethoscope instead of giving it back to the family? Not the A-hole. I'm (20sF) from an immigrant family in the US. There's a stereotype among members of my community that only a handful of jobs that are acceptable to have (i.e. doctor, lawyer, engineer).Some years I've spent $20k in repairs and upkeep. $5.5k seems like a good average across my like 6 years in my house. That would be $2,750 owed in on average. Congrats, you've either broken even or owe more. In my scenario someone would owe in another $851 and get nothing back in this "equity" building time.Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: Stating my desire of selling my share of the family land.Also, it sounds like the estate was closed and you inherited the house and are paying for it from your own pocket rather than the estate. Evict the late husband's parents and sell the property. You essentially gave them first offer and they rejected it by not accepting. Reply reply.Because of their expectation I’d stay home with kids, they never valued my education, educational achievements or emphasized things beyond domestic skills. I’m the second youngest. By the time I was in high school, my two older brothers had gone to the college of their choice, with my parents fully covering tuition, books, an off campus apartment and …AITA for telling my sister she has to move? I (25f) own my moms old house. When she died 5 years ago my two siblings and I inherited it equally, but it was not fully paid off and in order to close out the estate it needed to be sold. I had the money and was emotionally attached to the home, so I bought out my siblings and own it outright now.My girlfriend has expressed interest in doing DMT, and I have expressed to her multiple times that it makes me uncomfortable, and that I would like for us to avoid doing drugs that are hallucinogenic. I have had a close family member who was taking a combination of psychedelics and entered into psychosis, and I’m terrified of that happening ...When we first announced our idea my family was supportive as hell, they started making space for us and moving our things little by little, helping in any way they could. My family lives on a cattle ranch, if you don't know what that is it is pretty much a lot of land with a lot of cows and other livestock as well.TikTok video from aita (@aitaonreddit_): “AITA for wanting to sell our family home to a stranger even though my half sister will buy it from me to keep it in the family? #redditstories #reddit #aita #aitareddit #redditstorytime #reddit_tiktok #redditreadings #fyp #foryou #foryoupage #viral #xyzbca #fy #f4f #minecraft #gaming #aitaonreddit_”. original sound - aita.They want me to sell them my home for the $120k I bought it for. I plan on using the equity as the down payment on my new home home that's roughly around $600k. My mom & my sister are pissed. They keep trying to convince me to sell the home for under value so "they can finally have some stability in their life".This comment is a copy of your post so readers can see the original text if your post is edited or removed. This comment is NOT accusing you of copying anything. Read this before contacting the mod team. Obligatory on mobile and not used to Reddit so sorry for any formatting issues. I (23F) live in a rural village with my parents and younger ...AITA for selling my own home and not giving family business? I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.I ended up accruing a whole lot of disposable income in a short time. Stupidly, instead of just keeping quiet about it, I decked out my room with a new TV, headphone and a PS5. Obviously, this setup was of great interest to my two step-brothers. Initially, my rule was that they could play the PS5 anytime I wasn’t using it but I would get ...AITA for not splitting the proceeds of the sale of our parents house? Not the A-hole. When my mom died, back in 2018, she left me and my siblings a decent chunk of money and her house. My siblings wanted to sell the house and split the money. I wanted to keep the house. It's a unique property with a pretty big lot in the middle of the city.AITA for selling the family heirloom of a stranger, and dodging a request to share the profits? My mother 'S' retired a couple years ago, and has taken up flipping things on eBay or DePop as a hobby. She does not do this with the intent to hit it big, she just enjoys the hunt and running into cool pieces.After some discussion, my wife-to-be and I decided that we would like to sell the heirloom to pay for our wedding. My brother, who is also my best man, was furious when he found out, and said he wanted nothing to do with the wedding anymore. He thinks my wife-to-be and I are behaving like spoiled brats.Over the last couple of years, my family (i.e. my mother and sister) has been under financial duress and have been pleading to me to sell my house because I "don't need it". And they're technically right: I don't utilize this space. It's just my dog and I. I haven't set foot in some rooms in months.r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.You had given him too much control over your property, didn't enforce boundaries, allowed him to dominate you. YTA to yourself. You are free now so get some counseling so you don't do this again.My girlfriend has expressed interest in doing DMT, and I have expressed to her multiple times that it makes me uncomfortable, and that I would like for us to avoid doing drugs that are hallucinogenic. I have had a close family member who was taking a combination of psychedelics and entered into psychosis, and I’m terrified of that happening ...Dusty Thunder covers r/AITA (and other Reddit stories) and provides reactions to each story.https://linktr.ee/dustythunderhttps://www.dusty …When it comes to selling your home quickly and efficiently, one powerful tool that you should not overlook is MLS listings. One of the primary advantages of listing your home on ML...It's not like this took 5 seconds to do!!! I'm sure daughter knew but now wants to throw a fit because she did get her way!!! It's not her house..Fockin ridic. r/AmItheAsshole •. AITA for selling my family home because my pregnant sil ate my dinner. I know shitty title but I’m in a rush to get to work so excuse my grammar. Also I want to point out me and my brother have two different fathers. I (19f) lost my father last year to cancer he left me 90% of his stuff including his family ...Asshole. It was my birthday about 6 months back and my grandma (who I am not close with due to her behaviour) gifted me a piece of jewellery of hers. She said she wanted it to be a family heirloom. To be clear, this necklace is less than 5 years old. It's a massive 14karat locket that's shaped like a pair of wings, encrusted with Swarovski ...Your car, your insurance, your rules. Keep your keys away from them and tell them they do not have general permission to take your car. Period. they're using beliefs about family manipulatively. they're making a 'family comes first' argument as a disguise for an expectation that only serves themselves.Some years I've spent $20k in repairs and upkeep. $5.5k seems like a good average across my like 6 years in my house. That would be $2,750 owed in on average. Congrats, you've either broken even or owe more. In my scenario someone would owe in another $851 and get nothing back in this "equity" building time.ADMIN MOD. AITA for offering to sell my house to my son and not my daughter? Asshole. My husband and I have 4 kids, Henry (35m), Lisa (33f), Elizabeth (30f), and Shawn (28m). We bought a 6 bed/7 bath house for next to nothing before Henry was born. Now that all of our kids have moved out, we decided to sell our house and buy a condo on the beach.In today’s digital age, selling items online has become an increasingly popular way to declutter your home and make some extra cash. With so many websites available, it can be over...They both passed 4 years ago a month apart. They gave me the property (because "I would appreciate and respect it more") while my mom and sister (s) got money and other assets (overall valued moer than the property). In the past 4 years, I turned part of the property into a venue for mainly weddings (GPs knew of this idea and thought it was a ...Against my fiancee's advice I sent them an itemized bill for everything I paid for myself that they freely gave my brother and sister. I said if they wanted to be a part of my life they had to ante up. They said that they cannot afford that because they are in debt still from helping my siblings out. I laughed at that and said I hoped that I .... Coral is just a brat. She needs to apologize anAfter some discussion, my wife-to-be and I de I (47M) inherited a property from my father 11 years ago. For the past five years I’ve been renting the house to a nice family with a young child (5M). They’ve been great tenants and there haven’t been any issues. A month ago I was approached by a realtor about selling my property. He had a buyer who was interested and was ready to offer ...I told my dad and his family that my son's name was none of their business and if they did not like it they did not have to be in our lives. Given that they weren't told beforehand, and given that I had to get loud before I said this to them, I might be the asshole for coming across as cold and uncaring about them and their place in our lives ... YTA, divorce will not fix your finances or pay for your two daughter&# She said the house appraised for $400,000 but going to sell it to us for $350,000 and wants us to pay it off in 10 years. The monthly payment will be about $2,300 a month. My wife and her aunt came to these figures based largely on how long her aunt expects to be active and wants to use the money to travel and enjoy life.AITA for not letting my family use my home to party. Not the A-hole. So I invited my family to spend Christmas morning at my house. It's common knowledge within my family that my family (husband /26 and daughter /4) spend Christmas afternoon over at my in laws house and Christmas evening is spent as just us three. 'AITA for selling an heirloom of my ex-husband’s family?' | Someec...
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